Help Reclaim Our Foster Children

Healing Children with Real Food — How to Get Children Healthy, Fast and Naturally!

By accident, we discover how fast a child can heal from most illnesses. When we began fostering children, we really got a sense of the value of good, real food. Then, a child can’t speak well or read, yet they can tell you the name of every fast food restaurant you pass…

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Well, we took that as a huge clue why each foster child is so sick. For us, every foster child came into our home with a nasty cough, antibiotics, allergies, gum disease, cancer, or a list of appointments.

It’s no secret that children are pretty sick today. Ask any school teacher or read the many studies. There is a connection to behavior and gut health.  One study, “The microbiome-gut-brain axis: from bowel to behavior”, outlines the connection of behavior-based issues as it directly correlated to the composition of the gut. Source

Children Heal Fast

Good food is important. And when you love children so much that you choose to Foster-to-adopt, this takes on a whole new meaning. The stress these children have gone through, with only a Standard American Diet provided, we knew that the food we put on our table would have an impact. We just didn’t realize how big of an impact. Benefits we have seen through Fostering and Adoption is amazing, and when you simply provide real food, miracles happen!

Of the few children we have been privileged to foster and love, each one had a real sickness. A real behavior issue that was from minor to difficult. But the coolest part of this story is…

We helped every single child improve!

In our case, we have been able to see lots of children heal. Many times a child would come in so off-balance that there was a temper tantrum every hour. Literally, there was a 2-year old child that could not talk, and after a few days he spoke quite well. A few children had serious diaper rashes that would disappear after a week. Difficult behavior, colds, coughs; the list goes on, but these symptoms vastly improve with a real food diet.

We even had to deal with cancer which was clearly the most difficult.

In between chemotherapy treatments the oncologists were amazed at his health improvement.  This boy was our genesis for starting Real Food Recovery.  We want to share and help others get their families healthy.  Plus we are hopeful that we can connect more health-minded families to these sweet orphaned [Foster] children.

One thing is for certain; it will never get boring to watch children heal! And especially with these precious children who need a loving family and some good nourishing food.

Children, Orphans, and Hope

For us, we birthed 3. We fostered 7 or so. And we adopted 1. And still, I pray to God that we can help many more.

I could tell you all the frustrating predicaments with fostering because there are plenty. But fostering is a reflection of life; there are always difficulties…that’s just a part of it and you persevere.

Set The Record Straight

The greatest challenge is the misconceptions of fostering.  My goal in sharing our story is to inspire you by giving you a bit of my heart. And to encourage you for the power you have when you feed your children well (less processed and sugar-laden foods).

Regardless of the faults that exist with fostering, the goal…after all, is to help these innocent children. They are the ones that suffer and need a family.

Many times people tell me that they couldn’t bear to lose a child OR the system is broke, OR whatever the obstacle – all I think is, this is a child. And this child has nothing to do with the system. This child is simply a soul that wants to be loved and to love and needs someone to show them the way. (And frankly, so do their biological parents!)

Today 1 in 2 children are facing a chronic illness according to the CDC and that includes these orphans. Even more so, I believe because they are missing a family. A wonderful family.

Our family truly seeks to live out Isaiah 1:17:

…Learn to do good! Seek justice, relieve the oppressed, defend orphans, plead for the widows.

We have discovered that life is not life without these efforts.

Helping Our Children

There are some incredible reasons why you should consider helping children. Whether you adopt, donate, or foster, there are some amazing children that can grow into terrific people if given the chance.In the beginning, we tried to adopt, but got shifted because of our principals. (Here’s that story)

So as we shifted and began to foster, we discovered the challenges and misconceptions. “People do it for money”, “Why are YOU doing this?”, “This system is so corrupt”, etc…  We overlook these challenges, because despite the errors in the system, children were at the heart of it. The goal…after all, is to help these innocent children. They are the ones that suffer and need a family.

There are about 500,000 children caught up in the Foster system in the United States. Globally there are conservatively over 10M orphans. In the U.S., approximately 50,000 “age-out” every year and that means that they are NOT adopted. They have no support – family – to help them. These are a new generation of 18 year olds.

I can remember starting college and when things got difficult, I could call my family. When I mismanaged my time or my finances, I had a Dad and Mom to help, I was very blessed, so it pains me to think of a child without that family support.

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In most states, college is free for a foster child, even when these children are adopted. What a gift! Unfortunately, very few take this. In fact, within a couple of years:

  • 1 in 4 will be incarcerated within two years of leaving foster care,
  • 1 in 5 will become homeless,
  • Only half will graduate from high school, and
  • Less than 3% receive college degrees even though it is free.

(Source:  The Pew Charitable Trust 2008. I have contacted Pew and this is the latest information they have researched.)

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Our family took in several children and gave it our all.  We had a 2 year old boy, 3 year old and 18 month old half sisters. We had a 9- month old girl and a few 1 year old girls. Each child is so special! Each child has issues to work through but it is so do-able.  With each child we fell in love.

Our very first little boy was 2. He was so quiet and the state employees brought him to our home and said he couldn’t talk. First, this boy screamed as I bathed him before bed. I cried, not having a clue as to why a child would scream in such a relaxing bath time ritual.

We just loved him through it and slowly, patiently taught him how to eat healthy and enjoy a bath. He spoke and called me Mommy the 2nd day he was in our home. Goodness. In 2 months he was well-behaved and we had a blast! However, I found a lump in his abdomen and we discovered cancer. Thus began the hardest experience we have faced. Fostering And cancer.

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It was an unprecedented case. There were so many unknowns that our family had to plow through this without much help from the state. They were bogged in paperwork. We had no choice as to the treatment. So even though we had less than a 5% chance of survival we still had to use the “widely accepted approach” which is chemotherapy.

It still amazes me how incredible blessings always come with difficulties.

What a journey! We learn the value of medical freedom to choose your method of treatment. Certainly, we learn the importance of choosing happiness and helping others. Of the few children we have been privileged to foster and love, each one improved.

So our success in loving and helping these children is rooted in changing the diet first.

With a little respect, love, and real food, improvements occur in just a couple of weeks. We see major improvements within months. Our case manager and guardian ad litem (appointed through the state) know that we are really trying to get them healthy, and they would get so excited observing the progress of our children!  It is the exact same excitement when anyone changes to a real food diet as a family, everyone gets a little less grumpy. Ha! And everyone gets some rosy color in the cheeks and fills in or thins out in the right places!

Here are some fantastic sites that we use.

Find your local groups to either donate, volunteer, and if interested foster-to-adopt: Go for it!

And the greatest gift in helping these children is not the love or good that we bring them,

It is the love they show us!

Read our amazing story also shown on Kelly The Kitchen Cop Here! Thank you, Kelly, for sharing our story!

 

 

Mandy
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2 thoughts on “Help Reclaim Our Foster Children

  1. Thank you so much for all you do Mandy! Your care and concern for these children is wonderful and inspiring! Bless you for your efforts!

    1. Thank you, Raine. It means a lot coming from you.

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