Today is Mother’s Day
On this day, everyone is supposed to focus on Moms. It is supposed to be a day to recognize the sacrificial love of a Mom. Yet as I sit here with my kids bustling about their business in and out of our home, it occurs to me that this is not what Mother’s Day is for me.
Mother’s Day is a day when I want all my family around. What makes me a mom are my children. These little beings are what push me to be greater than what I was before. Less selfish, less careless, more intentional, and more willing to give more than formerly thought possible.
Our family table is the catalyst for many of our (extra)ordinary time together. The table is where we spend lots of time eating and visiting together. These are my most treasured moments. Today, I find this photo that didn’t turn out as well as I wanted a couple of years ago. Yet, now I can see the perfectness of the imperfect.
My Best is Good Enough
I’m not the best mom, but I have certainly given my best. I quit my career for a while to help our compromised firstborn son. Staying home is not a revered profession, so many times, I felt unproductive as I fed babies and changed diapers. Then I fostered-to-adopt a two-year-old boy that gave me more meaning to the mundane. Abandoned and neglected, this little boy’s mom didn’t know how to mother. She didn’t have a good example as I did.
Slowly but surely, I began to value myself. My science degree serves the highest purpose for my family as I find power and recovery using and preparing the best foods to feed my children to live strong, capable lives. I migrate to work a bit more with my husband as I homeschool our children. We do what fits our circumstances as every mom does. Moms adapt because we are amazing!
Moms find the best path to enable our children with the best opportunity to live their purpose with confidence. We encourage other moms because we know how ugly those little voices inside our heads can be.
When I can see the heart of my children, beyond their superficial behavior, then I can respond and discipline with the perfect antidote for the exact “something” they need to move through life with grace.
So as I enjoy this day for Mothers, it truly is all about family.This day is special because of the children we; birthed, adopted, and the children we support with great food at a local foster group home.
Happy Mother’s Day! You are an amazing Mommy!